Anonymous asked:

I've been best friends with this guy for a while and as a friend I love him. Tbh idk how I could live without him. Lately Ive been liking him as more than a friend but Idk if he feels the same way. We cuddle and hug a lot + he told me he'd take a bullet for me. But when I asked him y he said so I could find someone that could treat me like I deserved. So it's like he's hinting someone else should b my bf. Idk what to do. I want us to be together badly but I couldn't live without his friendship.

cactuseeds answered:

Ugh that stinks :( I’m sorry :(
You’re obviously really into him so maybe you should pursue something casual if you’re okay with that, but otherwise it seems like he’s super flaky and not into commitment :/ and if that’s the case, you shouldn’t waste your valuable time on someone who isn’t prepared to give you the happiness you deserve.